Relationships
Having a boyfriend or girlfriend for the first time is really exciting, but it can be scary too. It's normal to have worries about it and what will happen in the future. Taking a chance is part of life and it's also part of relationships, but it's important to stay safe and happy.
What kinds of things do people worry about in relationships?
When you start going out with someone, even if you started out as friends, there are lots of new things to learn about the other person. This can be worrying and you might feel a bit odd or have emotions that you haven't had before. Things that you worry about might be:
- Does he/she really like me?
- Will the relationship last?
- Will he/she be faithful to me?
- Should we have sex?
It's natural to worry about some or all these things. If you are really worried about your relationship you could talk to your boyfriend/girlfriend about how you feel. If you feel like you can't talk to them you can call us about any problems you might have.
Should I have sex with my boyfriend/girlfriend?
Having sex is a big decision and there are lots of things to think about if you are considering doing it. Find out more in our Sex advice section.
How do I break up with someone?
It's never easy breaking up with someone but there are ways to make it easier. If you are unhappy about something in your relationship, or don't feel the same way about your boyfriend or girlfriend any more, then you might want to end the relationship. Think about how you would feel if it was the other way round and try and make it as painless as possible.
- Try and tell your boyfriend/girlfriend face to face in a place that is private and quiet, or at least not full of people you both know.
- Don't break up with them by text, email or letter as this will be really hurtful.
- Tell your boyfriend/girlfriend why you want to end the relationship.
- If you don't want to be friends, don't promise that you will be as it will hurt them more if you lie.
Help, I’ve been dumped!
Splitting up with someone is never easy and especially if it wasn't your decision. It can be really upsetting if you are the one who is dumped and it takes time to get over it.
It can helpful to talk about how you feel to a friend or even a parent. If you feel that you can't talk to anyone, you can call us to speak to someone about how you feel.